Do you make an appointment for yourself ?
"I do all this for my family, and I don't have to think about myself."
"When homework, children's work, office work is over, I'm tired, where is the time to think about me ..?"
"I Have Never Lived The Way I Want"
We have heard these ideas from our friends, neighbours, and family. They are not strange ideas to us. Why do we listen to stories like this? Or why do you / I feel like this ..? What do you think is the answer?
Think about it for a moment. Why do you work? What are you doing for a living? If you look closely at this, it is rare for someone to do things for themselves. You can see that many others are devoting their lives to maintaining the various bonds that surround them.
That is not a mistake. It may seem selfish to think only of oneself and to do one's part. Another may answer that this is how bonds are. However, we tell you that it is up to you to decide what you want to live. If not, you're tired of life, and you can read those dialogues, as we said above. What should we do?
Can we get out of this normal situation and go on a separate journey? That is not an idea. Ordinary life Today, we tell you how to find your own life, do something for yourself, and make yourself happy while your family, parents, wife or husband, boyfriend, or girlfriend live with any of these people. In the end, the important thing is whether they live their lives happily and easily. So give these steps a try. You feel more proud/happy about yourself than ever.
Try to be happy
One of the things most of us do is live our dreams. In a way, it is a good thing. If we have plans, we will pursue them. But those dreams are only worthwhile if you work hard to make them come true. Otherwise, if you keep only dreams as dreams, you will always be left with regrets: sadness and frustration. Just imagine if you are not satisfied with your current home, vehicle, clothes, mobile, laptop, things like this ..?
What if your dream is a better one? All you have to do is work hard for it. Keep the goal in front and pursue it. Otherwise, if you live frustrated with what you have kept as a dream, you will be left with nothing. So either be comfortable with the size available. Or try to get as much as you need. Choose for yourself what you want to do. But do not live with sadness and frustration for any reason. Give yourself value.
Many people put their family/children first and avoid doing so. They sacrifice what they want, what they want. That is how we are shaped within the Asian family culture. But the question is, are we enjoy doing it? Most of the time, after doing all that, they still have regrets about the things they want to lose, don't they? That's normal. What do for a living now? Set aside some time & money for yourself while fulfilling all responsibilities and duties. You manage everything, but this task is difficult but not impossible. All it takes is effort. So don't forget to book something for yourself. Learn how to manage enough to set aside something to maintain yourself.
Find time to do what you love
We all have different hobbies. We had other hobbies when we were little when we were in school and young. Some people like to watch movies. Another reads books. Others like music. But you get older and in your family increase your responsibilities at work; almost everyone misses this part. Most people do not bother to make time for their hobbies after work and household chores because they want to earn money. But this is a very unfortunate situation. We all need this relaxation, rest and satisfaction to be mentally stable. If you live a stressful and unsatisfying lifestyle, it can develop into stress and depression. Some information suggests that these conditions may even develop into severe brain dysfunction. So whatever your hobby, find some time for it. Even if you can't do it every day, don't forget to make time to enjoy it at least once a week.
Treat yourself like that
Another important thing. How many people lived in such a beautiful order? Just think, back to that old reason. You forget about yourself after devoting time and effort to household chores, children, and family. But do not forget that you are a normal person—a professional. Then your personality the professional status will all start to show with the way you live. So don't forget to think about your appearance among all other activities.